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Undesirable Behavior behaviors you have to avoid if you do not need to come across as a creep. This kind of behavior applies to all situations where your words or acts make her feel uncomfortable or even jeopardized whenever you are around. It is exactly the opposite of how you would want her to feel since it makes her feel likeyou're testing her limits. Here are certain things you must refrain from saying or doing at any cost.
How to Initiate Contact: How to Write a Great First Message The tried and tested method to creating a killer first message goes something like this: find something you have in common with the woman or manyou're interested in, and mention this as a way to strike a conversation. As a rule of thumb, steer clear of commenting on how handsome he looks or' hot' that dress makes her appearance.
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